tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-446049270059337405.post5618339279064930642..comments2021-01-07T07:11:24.205-06:00Comments on Fen's Thoughts: #120 Leading by Standing StillFenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06348152970109407543noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-446049270059337405.post-22271549126715812322011-05-24T21:53:22.049-05:002011-05-24T21:53:22.049-05:00Great blog and great idea....very (impossible?) di...Great blog and great idea....very (impossible?) difficult to do as humans like to lie to themselves if the see something they don't like....classic self-deception....links back to your previous blog about Leadership and Solitude...I am not sure a person can do this by themselves UNLESS they have experienced some kind of PERSONAL TRAUMA.....as I have discussed before....the trauma serves as the wake up call (slap in the face) to help one see themselves as they REALLY are, not what the think they are or want to be....soooooo difficult....<br /><br />but you are absolutely right Fen, the right thing to do....get to a high level of self-awareness leading (hopefully) to self-regulation.....usually (always?)requires a trusted friend/spouse/other to help one "get there".....<br /><br />JDAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-446049270059337405.post-47408486032395077982011-05-22T16:20:22.345-05:002011-05-22T16:20:22.345-05:00As I readying thoughts it made me see alot of my s...As I readying thoughts it made me see alot of my self and how I do things maybe slowing down and think about things before jumping just to get it done or trying to find the answers to things there are no answers toAbby galesnoreply@blogger.com